are we human or objects??

mozy once commented in a photo I sent him from our first lunch together and said "don't build memories BUILD REALITY" I didn't understand what he meant then, yet in the last 4 days I found out that memory is really a bad thing to make; anything that turns human from being human is a bad thing If someone you once you knew at work or in a group outing or in any place turned into a phone number on your mobile or mail address it's a bad thing If your childhood classmate turns into a piece of paper in your drawer or a punch of old pictures it's a bad thing If your teenage best friend become a punch of greeting cards and silly dolls it’s a bad thing If the one you once loved turned into a thought at the back of your head, or a mail that you can't delete or a text massage in your mobile or a teddy bear, or gift he brought you that’s a bad thing It's just not right to turn people into dates, pieces of paper, pictures, MEMORIES It doesn't feel right that breathing living human beings turn into objects It doesn't feel right that my past, my triumphs, my success, my let downs, my failures, my tears my sigh, my loud laughs, my innocent smiles turn into words in my diary It doesn't feel right that people change It doesn't feel right that people got replaced It doesn't feel right that there's no other chance It doesn't feel right that memories is the only thing that remain it'll make me so sad to become turn into a memory i am a human being... i feel, i breathe, i effect, i got effected, i cry , i laugh, i walk i talk i don't wanna be a memory , i never wanna be.........